Author: Liu Yingya has 10 months since the birth of the child, unplanned pregnancies have caused me to be very unbalanced, and the children are tired, and there are problems in their health, but there is no problem. The husband is not always at home for reasons of work, he is always upset, he thinks of something very serious, and the child or herself is worried about a serious illness, and he is always anxious, asking how to untangle his emotions. These are the cases. 1. To make marriage more effective. We could think about keeping the other half anxious. Ta is less anxious and more capable of doing more supportive things in relationships and of facing things more effectively. Otherwise, Ta would be locked in anxiety, constantly in it, rather than giving real attention to relationships and thinking about things, or spending a lot of effort and time on anxiety struggles and responding to anxiety. When partners are less anxious, Ta is also more able to take a positive look, think about constructive things, think about development, think about growth and be more powerful. These are in turn good for marriage and good for you. 2. The anxiety is often a claim to relationships. Any anxiety response is sometimes a potential claim to the relationship. And when the other half is anxious, it’s your relationship that has some sort of situation. There is a lack of consideration of each other ‘ s feelings and of mutual support and support. It’s a time when marriage can be difficult. There is a lack of ownership of each other. And these things, taking into account each other’s feelings, accompanying and supporting each other, are sometimes just things to be done. The more you think about your partner’s feelings, the more you think about your partner’s feelings, the less anxious the partner is, and the more you give back is in many ways. This will also deepen your relationship and support each other in depth. Such training is also self-intentioned when everything takes into account the partner ‘ s feelings. The more you feel, the more energy you feel. In relationships, you have the initiative. You’re creative. 3. There are stable and deep relationships: it is easier to be anxious and less depressed; it is easier to react to stress and anxiety than to be more effective; it is more able to focus on the outside, to be active and to think; and it is easier to realize its potential. Author of the Master of Psychology in Liu Yingya, researcher in family marriage, researcher in family education, researcher in personal development, psychological problems in the family, emotional problems in marriage, confusion in love, counselling in marriage or marital relations, counselling in family relations
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