Original family: those who don’t ask why

Author: Father Liu Yingya: I would like to ask you about the child. Children may not know their own mistakes, they can’t, they can’t, they can’t, they want to change school now, they’re getting bigger. These are the cases. 1. Think of some drama in which the female lead asks the male lead, why? It can be felt that the relationship is deeply involved and that the feelings are deeply involved. Deep enough to depend on like a child. In turn, the lead man asks the hostess why. It is also involved in mist forests. The depth of the connection between the two people is entwined. However. What if the parents ask the child why? Why 59? Why don’t you listen to me in class? Why can’t you get along with everyone else? You know I got you one big one. This scene, parents’ inability to read paper. At this point in time, there has been some difficulty and patience in dealing with and solving the problems of children. At this point in time, the question is why? It is a refusal, a rejection of such a question, and a denial of children to add to themselves. 2. When parents are so powerless and parents are so impatient, children often suffer from a lack of patience in their own lives, lack sufficient energy and resilience to face their lives, lack reason to think and face their own lives. When parents are so weak, and when parents are so impatient, parents are unable to empower and empower their children. There is a potential lack of connectivity even between parents and children and a potential lack of attention to children by parents. Children lack the power, the energy, the knowledge. Children also lack a secure back. The lack of a stable and reliable primary family is behind it. Because of this sense of powerlessness, when parents are so impatient, there is also a lack of connection and support between parental and marital relationships. Parents can take care of themselves and help themselves when they are not patient with their children, feel stress, irritation, etc. In order to discover the deep-rooted plight and needs of the child, the seemingly problematic situation of the child does not fit the attitude of resistance, for example, “the head gets bigger” or to make him aware of his problems. It’s still with the kids. To stand with the children and face them with their position and attitude. That’s how kids grow faster and more solid. Parental strength and patience are needed to accompany the child. Author of Master’s degree in psychology, psychologist, researcher in family marriage, researcher in family education, researcher in personal development, psychological problems of the family, emotional problems of marriage, confusion in love, counselling in marriage or marital relations, counselling in family relations